How do you love? Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist Candy Newman Asks The Big Question
So how do you love? It seems like a very simple question, but when you are asked ‘how do you love?’ by someone it evokes an answer that will be totally unique to your own self. Everyone is different when it comes to addressing their role in a close relationship, and therein lies a potential issue that could possibly cause problems for you and your partner if you both have different needs in a relationship. Counsellor, psychotherapist, and parent coach Candy Newman, working in North London, looks at some of the factors behind ‘How do you love?’ and offers insights […]
Christmas Stress & Anxiety During The Festive Period
Christmas can be a time of magic and wonder for children, but for some people the festive period can also be a time of Christmas stress and anxiety. For many reasons these people experience feelings of isolation, loss and bereavement, financial pressures or increased family conflict that can make the Christmas period a very anxious and stressful time of year, for these people they could possibly feel remote and lonely at Christmas. This is a total contrast to how many of us see things at this time of year, for this is seen as a time when family get together […]
Lonely At Christmas: Dealing With Anxiety And Isolation That Causes Christmas Depression
This time of year many people are worried about feeling lonely at Christmas and possibly unaware of the anxiety and the onset of Christmas depression that can occur from isolation during the festive season. For most of us at this time of year we are surrounded by cheery songs on the radio, festive parties that you will be attending, gifts and good wishes that you give and receive, it’s a happy time for most of us. But for lonely people it can be a difficult time. For many different reasons, such as the death of a loved one, living too […]
Path Of Longing – A Spiritual Journey By Müge Erdogmus-Turnbull
What is the ‘Path of Longing’, how do we find it, where does it lead us to, and more importantly, what will we benefit if we take the journey along this spiritual byway? Sometimes it is our home that we long for, sometimes it is intimacy; we long to be seen and met just as we are. Sometimes we long to come home to ourselves, to wear our ‘soul skin’, for our authentic presence in the world. We long to belong, we long for the mother earth, for freedom and for the creative soul-child that lives in all of us. […]
Smartphone Addiction: Ditch Those Toxic Tech Habits & Become A Better Version Of You
Care to admit it or not, we have become a nation of digital dependents where we spend more time looking at our smartphone screens every day than we do sleeping (on average 8 hours 41 minutes). In fact, smartphone addiction is on the rise, the average adult picks up their phone 150 times a day, so it’s hardly surprising that 69% of children say their parents spend too much time on technology and less time taking care and interacting with them. The CNN website recently published an article on smartphone addiction stating “You may be one of the growing number […]
Cheda Mikic is at HQ Therapy Running a TRE (trauma release exercises) & Embodied Self Awareness Class
We are honored to welcome Cheda Mikic to HQ Therapy Rooms in Haggerston, Hackney, where he will be running a TRE (trauma release exercises) and Embodied Self Awareness class. Cheda is a highly experienced body therapist and he works with the body via a range of modalities to help clients achieve a better state of equilibrium physically and emotionally. He has been working in the field of alternative medicine for over 25 years. In this new and exciting class, he will be exploring how to embody self-awareness and how to reconstruct the original body schema with new resources, safety, and […]
When Love Hurts: How Couples Get Stuck in a ‘Dance of Distress’
What do you do and who do you turn to when love hurts? Most of us seek a close, committed, loving relationship; someone who is there for us when we need them, someone who can respond to us when we require close connection and with whom we can confide and share our feelings and concerns. We seek a relationship in which we feel emotional and physical intimacy. When we are in such a relationship we are happier, healthier and more resilient in the face of life’s storms. Indeed, many couples begin their relationship with the sense that they have found […]
Using Authentic Warrior Embodiment Process for Self-Empowerment, Shadow Integration & Trauma Healing
Using martial arts in therapy might sound like a strange combination but The Authentic Warrior Embodiment (AWE) process is a system of exercises and practices that enables the individual to embody the energies of the archetypal Warrior, as understood in Jungian psychology. More than just ‘acting’ warrior-like, embodiment involves training the nervous system to express the Warrior from the inside-out, as opposed to simply wearing a mask of warrior qualities. To embody is to become. In AWE, through authentic warrior training, this archetypal energy is revealed, explored and stepped into. Students experience: Stronger boundaries Firmness and grounding in the face […]
Zen And The Art Of Touch And Movement – By Abi Adams
Never underestimate the art of touch and movement and the power that flows from within, it can transform your whole being if you allow yourself to understand it and help to ground you as a human being. If you are not aware of yourself and your surroundings then read on below and i will try to explain my experience of this of this to you. What can you see in the picture above? What can you feel? I see two women, extremely vulnerable. Not knowing what’s going to happen, but looking for a different reaction to the one they are […]
Mindful or Mind Full? Joining A Gestalt Therapy Personal Development Group in Hackney, London
Gestalt therapy is an existential, experiential form of psychotherapy which focuses on the individuals here and now (present moment) experience and awareness through its approach. Being a holistic form of psychotherapy, Gestalt therapy looks at the whole person in regards to their mind, and body (thoughts and feelings) inseparably. It’s a perfect way for individuals who are interested in finding out more about themselves. Achieving personal development and gaining an insight into Gestalt. Gestalt therapy center group work offers the opportunity for individuals to explore personal issues with others who are interested in understanding themselves, and their relationship with others. […]
Anxiety In The Classroom: Why Teachers & Students Are Struggling Over Workloads
When it comes to anxiety in the classroom with children there are many visible apparent forms which many of us can identify with, like when a child is feeling nervous before a test at school, an upset stomach, disruptive or angry behavior, symptoms like ADHD, to students struggling with learning disorders that have not been diagnosed. But something like a school anxiety disorder is not something that is a normal visible symptom, or exclusive to just the student, research is showing that teachers too can have their own type of anxiety in the classroom issues. As the summer term for […]
BodyTalk: The New Consciousness-Based Healthcare System For Rebooting Your Body
BodyTalk is based around the belief that your body knows how to heal itself and the ability to carry this out, but just like in this day and age, similar to a computer, your body can get overloaded, leading to malfunction. A BodyTalk practitioner offers no diagnosis or prescription, just a “rewiring” session using muscle testing and light tapping on the head and sternum to re?establish channels of communication within the body. This will allow the body to perform it’s own internal ‘reboot’ and things will start functioning optimally again. We know that our experiences and the events of our […]
The Labels We Live By: And Why Labeling People With Addiction Problems Is Complex
Modern society it seems is intent on labeling people, why do we have the need to do that? At what point did the person become the label, or did the label become the person? It’s an interesting question that can be applied to pretty much any form of human behaviour. My name is Rowenna Clifford and i am Cognitive Hypnotherapist & Mindfulness Coach. After an inspiring workshop on addiction and trauma delivered by two experts in the field, Chula Goonewardene and Cheda Mikic, and hosted by Melanie Cox at the HQ Therapy Rooms in Hagerston, I was left with this […]
Mindfulness Meditation: On becoming an observer of my own mind
I started practicing mindfulness and meditation 10 years ago. I stumbled across it by chance really, not really having heard of it, and having a fair few preconceptions about it.
At the time, I was a typical young work-hard play-hard Londoner, who also suffered from insomnia and anxiety.
I didn’t want the anxiety, and looking back I spent a lot of energy trying to push it away, by filling my life with things to do and achieve – my days were packed, from the moment I woke up at 5am to go running, to the moment I went to sleep around midnight, after a long day of working and socialising.
An Emotional Body Positive Image: Movement for Mental, Physical & Spiritual Health
What do you think of your body? Do you have a body positive image of yourself? Do you like your body, trust it, love being in it? Do you even acknowledge this wonderful gift that enables you to move around and experience life? I have realised through a lot of wonderful self exploration and finally finding the right people and environments to support my relationship with my own body positive image, that when I empower my body I create an anchor for my mind to settle. When my body is able to express itself, there is less of a battle […]
Women In Need Of Support: Radio Phone-In Shows And Finding Your Vital Lifelines
Flicking through the channels on Tuesday I randomly switched my car Radio to BBC5 Live. I found myself listening to a phone –in programme on Mental-health provision in England.
Karen was calling in from North Devon; she was desperate and she was saying how impossible it was for her to get help. She had been on a list to see a specialist for months and months, she had not been assigned a mental health nurse, she had no family and had had a very disturbed childhood, she seemed to have no job, no friends and no anchors in her life. The only strategy she was using which worked was to attempt suicide regularly so that the North Devon Police would at least come and listen to her! She was committing petty crimes in order to be noticed by them again – they at least offered her kindness and care.
Rowena Humphreys On Healthy Eating: A New Year’s Resolution You Can Stick To
When it comes to healthy eating there are few people more well placed than Rowena Humphreys to share knowledge on how to maintain a healthy diet. And not only eat well, but still enjoying cooking and helping get more plants (vegetables, fruits, grains and beans) on your plate. Which in turn results in you being empowered to make healthy choices. London-based Rowena is a certified Food For Life Trainer working with the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine. She is also a graduate of Cornell’s Plant Based Nutrition course and a Founding Trustee of Made In Hackney. She has just commenced […]
On The Couch With Integrative Transpersonal Psychotherapist Salvo La Rosa: Searching for Fireflies
Welcome to the second installment of our ‘On the Couch’ series, My name is Melanie Cox and we have the pleasure of talking to trainee psychotherapist, Salvo La Rosa. Salvo will be hosting a workshop between 24th-25th November 2018 at the CCPE called ‘Searching for Fireflies’, which focuses on a psychotherapeutic exploration of the theme of longing (unfortunately all spaces have been taken). Salvo is 36 years old and is in the final few months of a five-year training in integrative transpersonal psychotherapy at CCPE, in Little Venice, Maida Vale. Together with a grounding in psychodynamic, humanistic and existential approaches […]
Come To Our Free Alternative Therapy Open Day At HQ Therapy Rooms Haggerston
Saturday 24th November 2018 10am – 4pm 322c (Ground Floor) Kingsland Road, E8 4DE. HQ Therapy is opening its doors for a day of relaxation. Please come along to try out our alternative therapy offerings for FREE. We will be offering a range of complementary therapies including Massage, Breathwork, Acupressure and Bodywork. Our therapists will be on hand to answer your questions about complementary therapies, diet and nutrition, how to detox, how to reduce stress and much more. There will be talks on Chinese medicine, Acupressure, Kenesiology as well as opportunities to try out these treatments. So why not take […]
On The Couch With Counsellor Daniel Wiegand: Focusing on a Person-Centred Approach
Welcome to our very first ‘On The Couch’ interview, this is where we get the chance to talk up close and personal with some of the therapists that have their practice here in HQ Therapy Rooms and try to find out how their own personal life experiences have helped them transcend and find empathy with the different therapy approaches they now use in their counselling work. Think of it like ‘therapy for therapists.’ My name is Melanie Cox and i am a Psychotherapist and TRE Practitioner and today i have the pleasure of talking with Person-Centred Counsellor Daniel Weigand about […]
World Mental Health Day 2018
World Mental Health Day is on Wednesday 10th October 2018. This year’s focus set by the The World federation For Mental Health (WFMH) is on young people and mental health in an ever changing world. Mental health problems can affect anyone, at any time, at any day of the year, but studies show that mental ill health often starts in young adulthood. It’s vital that we give young people access to the support they need to grow up happy, healthy and resilient. Mental health has become a bit of a buzz word lately. Its almost hip to talk about your […]
Emotional Resilience – The Benefits Of Meditation & EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)
When it comes to a person’s ability to deal with stressful situations or personal crises emotional resilience is key to adapting to the problems that arise and managing them in a healthy way. It has been shown that people with a higher degree and understanding of emotional resilience will be able to cope with the stresses that come with their daily life in a much more effective and calmer way and navigate their way through their crises more easily. The good news is that emotional resilience is a skill that can be learned and developed into a valuable coping tool. […]
The Importance of a Mind-Body Approach to Eating Disorders and Recovery
Dr. Jenna Daku explains in this article how eating disorders can affect many of us in this modern world. Our minds and bodies are deeply connected. Tears well up in our eyes when we are sad, and tension builds in our muscles when we feel anxious or afraid. Perhaps the deepest connection of all, however, lies between our stomachs and our minds. For example, it’s been discovered that our stomachs have as many neuronal connections as a cat’s brain. Similarly, serotonin, a neurotransmitter involved in positive mood and feelings of happiness, is primarily produced in our gut, which was unbeknownst […]
A Recovering Addict Discovers The Clearmind Awakening Workshop
This is the story of a recovering addict called Paul and his experience with the Clearmind Awakening workshop, a life altering invitation to a deeper, richer experience of self, through the transformative power of authentic, vulnerable connection. The Clearmind international institute offers speaker series events, personal growth workshops, a counsellor training program and a personal development school. With it’s headquarters in Langley, near Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada it runs various workshops centered around a whole range of emotional needs and works with with people from all around the world. The Awakening workshop is a creative, empowering, process oriented course for […]
Man Down: Why Do Males Find Sharing Personal Issues So Difficult?
When it comes to males sharing their personal issues with a friend, family or therapist, there seems to be large barriers for them to overcome in order to seek help with the problem. For example, it is a truth universally acknowledged that a man in a car, even when hopelessly and utterly lost, is incapable of stopping and asking a stranger for directions. Men always feel they should know how to get to their destination and are embarrassed when they don’t. It’s no different to how men face up to, or more accurately, don’t face up to their individual personal […]
Shells: Justina Kochansky Talks About Her Beautiful Eggshell Based Artwork
London-based artist Justina Kochansky describes her eggshell based artwork as a combination of found objects, surface techniques, and the careful handling of eggs. Ranging in size from three centimetres tall to five meters in length, her work explores the balance between strength and delicacy while challenging the notion that art must be big to be noticed. Making tiny worlds and figures has long been a passion for Justina. After studying Wayang Kulit (shadow puppetry) in Bali, she has gone on to perform puppet shows in places ranging from Wilton’s Music Hall to Abney Park Cemetery. For five years she ran […]
TRE Tension & Trauma Releasing Exercises: New Relaxation Techniques For Anxiety & Stress
The next TRE Group at HQ will be on Friday December 16th 9:30-11am
I have been a qualified Craniosacral Therapist since 2012, and have been involved with TRE® (Tension & Trauma Releasing Exercises) since 2014. I’ve had a keen interest in yoga since my teens, and it was whilst on a yoga retreat that I learnt about Craniosacral Therapy. It made me think about how our bodies carry the stories of our lives, with different degrees of tension held within each of us. Craniosacral therapy allows our bodies to be ‘heard,’ and helps to re-balance our nervous system. The physical process of TRE® similarly helps to quiet the nervous system, and the practical exercises means you can learn the routine and then do it at home, as and when you need. When you have an achey back or have had a stressful day for example.